Thursday, January 17, 2008

conflict.

i have never fear a conflict. but i fear destructive conflict. whenever i am facing a conflict, i will try my best to turn it into constructive conflict.
ever noted sometimes we can't get the feedback that we wish for. the other party either keep it mum or shy away from saying anythings. but when they overcome with angry and frustration, only then everything will be thrashed out. pouring like a rain in tropical monsoon. most of the times it is rather a storm. lightning strikes. the sounds of it almost shake the earth. yelling and shouting. hurting words thrown uncautiously. but it is still ok, as it is the only time we could receive and hear the view and feedback.
it is ok to be differences. people do differ from one another. to recognize and accept people difference is respect. in fact that is what make it perfect. different sizes and ability of the five fingers make our hand work perfectly!
but a lifelong heavy storm will make us tired. shortlive our life!

4 Comments:

Blogger zura lias said...

hi pokcik..:D

10:40 AM  
Blogger orked said...

Should I or Shouldn't I?

eemm..tak tau nak cakap ape,pakcik

1:49 PM  
Blogger MZ said...

hai cik juera :D

dear orked, say all you want but keep if you can't say it all. have a fabulous weekend ya!

3:04 PM  
Blogger A Z R A said...

pakcik sometimes, in time of a conflict, to walkaway is the best bet, till one of the parties make a move again, then everything can come pouring in ( or purring in? hehehehe)......find the root cause!!!

but yeah, long term heavy storm may tire us.......

11:07 PM  

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