Proud Parent. Part II. Like Father Like Son.

my eldest son used to be very closed to me. at one time he pulled himself away and so did i. i was hard on him. realising what i did was wrong i try the phsychology approach by doing more talking rather than using my hand. and our relations improved over the times. as they say, hugs and kisses our kids while they are still small coz once they grow big they will also grow shy to have us to do those to them especially in public.

during his earliest years, he is the one whom i always took whenever i go anywhere. his sister i normally left at home to accompany her mother. most of the times the travellings were at nites and mostly he wud be sleeping. and i have to carry him most of the times. sometimes even when he wide awake.

when his lil bro was born, i am still very much attached to him. coz unlike most parents, i am not that comfortable to have small baby in my arms. only when they are about 8 months above when their bone considered 'keras' then i dare to lift and have them in my arms. soon there are two of them whom i always took everywhere i go.

as my eldest son grew he becoming more like me. dunno how to explain it.

last time in our outing at PD, there was a group of youngster who also camping there comprising of both boys and girls. they all went swimming in the sea. there is one girl who a bit 'tembam' but for no apparent reason wearing a top that reveal most part of her breast.

later my son tersengeh-sengeh told me "ayah ... tadi ibai nampak nenen goyang-goyang".

about the same incident happened when we went to a shopping mall recently and passed by a lingerie shop. no wonder he was far behind.

it is time for some kind of damage control here, i told myself. it probably work so far coz whenever a sexy girl appear on tv screen he wud look else where. but the real test wud be when we make another trip to the beach or passing by a lingerie outlet ...

as for my own chilhood experience on the same subject ... perhaps some other time. ;))