Women Are Stronger Emotionally? Realising Actual Event.

in reference to my earlier entry on the same title, here is a real story on the matter. the first one. narrated by closed relatives. and as seen by own eyes.

a married guy wanna marry another one. the reasons and rationale doesn't really important. the lady to be wed refused to be a second wife. so is her mother. "if you wanna marry my doter, you better divorce your wife first" the 'mother-in-law to be' said to the guy.

the wife also refused to be 'madu'. she preferred to be divorced. she insist on it. so with some of her relative including her brother who himself have tried to marry another one. "it is better that you let my sister go before you marry another one" he said to the guy.

the guy tried to save his first marriage. tried not to divorce her existing wife. at the same time he wanted very much to have the lady as his wife, the second one.

at the end, as at now, the wife has been divorced. and he will getting marry on this coming eidul adha.

my thots that i kept in my head are :-

a) those who dare to mentioned the 'divorce' and insist on the guy to divorce the wife has acted wrongly and in bad judgement, doesn't matter what are their rationales and excuses.

b) if the lady asked the guy to divorce his first wife before marrying her, she is a cold hearted person. would you marry one?

c) anybody who rejected the 'madu' especially the existing wife without apparent and valid reasons is defying the Al-Mighty's clear 'hukum' on it.

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"under the same tree where lot of sweet memories happened, i am watching you walk away"