Such A Monster I Am. Part II : Of Friend and Foe.
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i am the believer of man and woman can be real good friend. i honestly believe it cud happen and could be done. and i wish i cud have one also.
but as the stigma and fear or society or people in public opinion about it, it rarely happen. and mostly it goes down to the failure of the man and woman itself to carry themselves when they have one.
people say friendship of good friend last forever. but what happen when one got a new much better friend in the form of life companion, wife and husband? always the best friend slowly if not immediately was cut off either on good or bad terms.
if you got a wife or a husband don't you think he or she is supposed to be your best friend? your soulmate? thus is there real need to have other best friend? or people love redundant?
supposed you have a best friend opposite of your gender. how do you carry yourself in the relationship? will you set or draw any boundary lines? or anything will goes? just fucking do it with sky is the limits?
is she or he is your best friend when either one or both of you share and exchange sexual comments and flirtous conversation? if that so where is the limit? or there were basically no limits? where is the respect and honour? then darnly both proclaim to the whole world that you both are just in for a good friendship.
that was my take on that matter. anyone who is in diagreement well i only have these four words; Fuck Off And Die!*.
but then again as i said it, it WAS my take. somehow something has viciously strayed me from my past believe. or perhaps i just escaped from stone ages where i was dumbly stucked.
now where would be my limits in my friendship with woman? how should i treat my female best friend? would it be allrite if we continue the friendship anywhere and anytime even on the bed? i guess if both parties proclaim it would not matter then why not? afterall this is a new world. everything possible. and everything goes. why stop at the wet conversations? why wasting time on flirtous remarks exchanges only? why?
is fucking your female friend wrong? if it is then just who the fuck say that dating out the opposite gender is all rite? is not it just a believe that one been planted on his or her head using loose interpretation either religiously or morally? what is the etiquette if we wanna go out with the opposite gender? have we fully conform and complied? or we just simply fucking do it using our generous common spoken words "tak aper lah" as the escapisme?
what if i say that i have planted the idea that fucking my female friend or even my best female friend is allrite? if both party mutually consented to it without any commitment than why not? why should i limited myself just to the silly outings of which it is also actually a wrong and sinful acts at the first place?
or are all these is down to the different languages and multiple interpretations? different background? different education? different cultures? different influences? or just a silly distortation from one's needs and wants?
just don't ask me cause i myself don't have the answer. but would anybody who have been actively dating out with opposite gender would grandly say and claim it is wrong not to limit the friendship to the steamy mutually beneficiary and enjoyable acts on the bed? or is it just the tongue speaking different language than the heart? just want to be politically correct ehh? or is it just the case that one might say no but they wouldn't object it when the opportunity come knocking the door?
i thot that i lived by saintly values which probably differ from others. but i don't force mine onto anyone. i don't condemn and criticise others as well. it is your life just fucking live it how you want to.
if so happen that i live by devilish and sinful values as others may see it and suddenly they wanna interfere and condemn, all i have is again my four heavenly words; Fuck Off And Die!*.
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* nota kaki ku di bibir mu : just words utter by my evil tongue. but my heart say different. just don't ask what it is. you might don't like the answer.
:)) muahahaha *evil laugh*
i am the believer of man and woman can be real good friend. i honestly believe it cud happen and could be done. and i wish i cud have one also.
but as the stigma and fear or society or people in public opinion about it, it rarely happen. and mostly it goes down to the failure of the man and woman itself to carry themselves when they have one.
people say friendship of good friend last forever. but what happen when one got a new much better friend in the form of life companion, wife and husband? always the best friend slowly if not immediately was cut off either on good or bad terms.
if you got a wife or a husband don't you think he or she is supposed to be your best friend? your soulmate? thus is there real need to have other best friend? or people love redundant?
supposed you have a best friend opposite of your gender. how do you carry yourself in the relationship? will you set or draw any boundary lines? or anything will goes? just fucking do it with sky is the limits?
is she or he is your best friend when either one or both of you share and exchange sexual comments and flirtous conversation? if that so where is the limit? or there were basically no limits? where is the respect and honour? then darnly both proclaim to the whole world that you both are just in for a good friendship.
that was my take on that matter. anyone who is in diagreement well i only have these four words; Fuck Off And Die!*.
but then again as i said it, it WAS my take. somehow something has viciously strayed me from my past believe. or perhaps i just escaped from stone ages where i was dumbly stucked.
now where would be my limits in my friendship with woman? how should i treat my female best friend? would it be allrite if we continue the friendship anywhere and anytime even on the bed? i guess if both parties proclaim it would not matter then why not? afterall this is a new world. everything possible. and everything goes. why stop at the wet conversations? why wasting time on flirtous remarks exchanges only? why?
is fucking your female friend wrong? if it is then just who the fuck say that dating out the opposite gender is all rite? is not it just a believe that one been planted on his or her head using loose interpretation either religiously or morally? what is the etiquette if we wanna go out with the opposite gender? have we fully conform and complied? or we just simply fucking do it using our generous common spoken words "tak aper lah" as the escapisme?
what if i say that i have planted the idea that fucking my female friend or even my best female friend is allrite? if both party mutually consented to it without any commitment than why not? why should i limited myself just to the silly outings of which it is also actually a wrong and sinful acts at the first place?
or are all these is down to the different languages and multiple interpretations? different background? different education? different cultures? different influences? or just a silly distortation from one's needs and wants?
just don't ask me cause i myself don't have the answer. but would anybody who have been actively dating out with opposite gender would grandly say and claim it is wrong not to limit the friendship to the steamy mutually beneficiary and enjoyable acts on the bed? or is it just the tongue speaking different language than the heart? just want to be politically correct ehh? or is it just the case that one might say no but they wouldn't object it when the opportunity come knocking the door?
i thot that i lived by saintly values which probably differ from others. but i don't force mine onto anyone. i don't condemn and criticise others as well. it is your life just fucking live it how you want to.
if so happen that i live by devilish and sinful values as others may see it and suddenly they wanna interfere and condemn, all i have is again my four heavenly words; Fuck Off And Die!*.
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* nota kaki ku di bibir mu : just words utter by my evil tongue. but my heart say different. just don't ask what it is. you might don't like the answer.
:)) muahahaha *evil laugh*
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